Update before the end!

Our Christmas card update this year!!

I finally graduated!! I finished my internship with the SAN JOSE SHARKS NHL hockey team in October to make it official! So glad to be done and to move on!

Dane and I traveled through Italy for the month of August. We also stopped by NYC! It was so much fun. For travel tips or updates on our travels in Italy you can visit www.ciaoitalyciao.wordpress.com.

Dane started Chiropractic school at Palmer West in California!

We went to a BYU football game against San Jose State - it was the best and worst game and BYU lost. Dane and I both lost our voices from screaming so much!

We visited San Francisco with Dane's family for Thanksgiving this year. It was beautiful and I loved all the boats. It reminded me a little of Sweden. I got my travel itch going again!! 

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL OUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS!

ITALY!!

For all those Italy lovers out there - check out my new travel blog: www.ciaoitalyciao.wordpress.com

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The end and beginning of another adventure

Well it has been too long since I updated my blog. A lot of things have been keeping me busy - including an amazing and long awaited month in Italy and a few days in New York City with some of my favorite people: The Crandall Family. It was great to finally get away from Rexburg with Dane and my sister and experience another adventure. Something I will never grow tired of.

I have started a blog for my senior project that will talk about our experiences in Italy as well as giving insightful tips, dos and don'ts and even some stories that should make you laugh, cry and probably want to visit Italy yourself. Everyone has been asking me, so was it worth it? The answer is: OF COURSE! Why on earth would visiting Italy not be worth it. If you want to know, book a flight and head on over to the Mediterranean for the experience of a lifetime. If you are interested in checking out the blog, please do: http://ciaoitalyciao.wordpress.com/ 

More news is that Dane and I finally arrived in sunny San Jose, California, where we will spend the next three and a half years of our life. We were definitely ready to get settled into our new apartment after traveling the globe for over a month. The best part of it all was seeing our families in Canada and Utah and not having to pay rent for the months of August and most of September!

Dane started chiropractic school on the 1st of October and is still getting used to the instructors, textbooks and expectations of the school after being graduated for almost 2 years. While he is at school, I have been spending my days as a digital media intern with the San Jose Sharks NHL hockey team. It really is the internship opportunity of a lifetime and I am grateful to have it.

While I hear it is getting cold up North, Dane and I frequently spend some time at the pools in our apartment complex and I am proud to say that I still have the glow of a tan on October 3, 2012. That has never happened to me before. It is beautiful here with the warmth, the palm trees and the green trees and grass. I am enjoying it so far. We are working out each day and trying to change our lifestyle. It has been so much fun so far and I am happy to share this time with Dane. It is another adventure for us to be here for these next three and half years. In the meantime I am looking for a job and enjoying as much sun as possible!

Graduation and Goodbyes

I never thought this week would come, but alas it is here. I am already packing boxes, selling textbooks back and preparing last minute graduation details.

With family on the way for this weekend's graduation ceremony and goodbyes with fellow classmates, professors and faculty, I am feeling a little nostalgic about all those that have influenced my life and made it possible to be where I am.

My first thank-you goes to Dane. You've been my rock through the last year and a half. You have encouraged me, strengthened me and lifted me when I was physically and emotionally tired. You always know just what to say or do to put a smile on my face and make me feel important. Most of all, you take care of me the way I need and love. I couldn't be happier. I love you. x.

Mom and Dad. You have given me one of the greatest gifts anyone could give: an education. You pushed me and had high hopes for who I could become and never judged me when I wanted to try something new or different. As a teenager I may not have vocalized how much you mean to me, but that is probably because I didn't know it until now. Thank you for bringing me up right.

My siblings. Steve, Todd, Tim, Heather, Lindsay, David, Rebecca and Scotty.  Thank you for being patient with me as I matured. My memories of our childhoods, Christmas holidays, vacations, family home evenings and dinners always bring a smile to my face. I grew up on laughter, tears and hand me down clothes, but most of all love. Thank you for being my best friends, advocates and advisors.

To those along the way. Thank you for your examples, your advice, your lifestyles and your perspectives. It has been a privilege to rub shoulders with you. I have learned some of life's greatest lessons with you, because of you and for you.

Next week Dane and I will be packing up the moving truck and heading south. We have loved our first year of marriage together in Idaho. This is where it all began for us. We hope to find joy in the next phase of our life as Dane begins chiropractic school and I look for a job. We are blessed and it's because of all of you. Goodbye Rexburg.

Breast Cancer awareness

I made this for my multimedia journalism class:

Ryan Skidmore lost his mother to breast cancer at age 14. Since that time, his life has taken some unexpected turns and he struggled to understand why God took his mother away. After years of inactivity in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Ryan missed the opportunity to serve a mission and experience the joy that comes from living the gospel.  Now, 27 years old, Ryan is engaged to married in the temple to his sweetheart Alex and has come back into full activity within the Church. His testimony of families and the gospel has grown and he has come to understand that this experience has made him who he is today – stronger and better.  Even though the loss of his mother is still close to his heart, he does all he can to talk about her and promote breast cancer awareness through the life he lives each day.

While filming this short video on Ryan and his experience with losing his mother through breast cancer, I was able to find out that his aunt died shortly after his mother from the same diagnosis.  His grandma is also a victim of breast cancer.  Ryan is a collector of Air Jordan shoes. Perhaps his favorite shoes are those that he bought for the breast cancer foundation. They are pink and symbolize his love for his mother and other family members that were victims of breast cancer.  Each year, Ryan participates in a run for cancer and donates to causes whenever possible.

Please donate to the National Breast Cancer Foundation Inc. today : You could save a life.

https://nbcf.stayclassy.org/checkout/donation?eid=15489

Scroll advisor touches the lives of students

A movie I made for a class assignment:

Brother Ryan Hales has been a part of Scroll since he was a student at Ricks College. Now, years later, he advises students in a portion of I-Comm, known as the Scroll newspaper. With his unique talents, personality and love for people, he is able to share a piece of his life with students during their development and education at BYU-Idaho.
Students share how he has touched their lives, inspired their goals and shaped their education during his time as a Scroll advisor.
The one thing everyone had to say about him: His laugh fills the room and he's fun to be around.

Illegal Immigration

My most recent article on immigration:

http://www.byuicomm.net/immigration-policy-rewards-illegals/

What do you think?

Government Program Abuse

This is an article I wrote for Brigham Young University-Idaho's campus newspaper: Scroll


Just click on the link below to read.

Government Program Abuse

What do you think?

Ten Commandments for Women Traveling Alone

Ten Commandments for Women Traveling Alone

By: Hilary Owens

Your bags are packed, you’ve said your goodbyes and you have your passport in hand.  Life couldn’t be any better.  You’re about to embark on one of life’s greatest adventures: traveling.

What better way to relieve some stress, forget an ex-boyfriend, or live your dreams than by swimming in the Mediterranean, walking the Wall of China or eating a famous crepe?   There is just one problem: your friends, your sister, and your ex-boyfriend are not going to be experiencing the world with you.  This time you are on your own. 

With your friends jealous, your mother and father proud, you board the plane, buckle your seat belt and take your first breath of freedom.

For women, traveling solo is an exhilarating experience, but it has challenges that many find daunting.  

To help you get the most out of your adventure, here are 10 tips from women who have experiences traveling alone – and who enjoyed it.

1.    Become Familiar

Before you leave for your trip, research the areas you are interested in visiting or staying. Know the names of nearby towns or cities, have a map of the area or the train schedule if you plan on using public transportation.  By becoming familiar with the area, you will feel more at ease upon arriving and won’t have your nose stuck in a map the entire time.  You can enjoy the journey and take pictures instead of looking for answers to questions that could have been answered before you left.

2.    When in Rome, do as the Romans do

It is wise to fit into the place you are visiting.  To avoid unwanted attention, dress as conservatively as the women you see around you.  Also, dress appropriately so you do not attract attention from men.  Your dress can still reveal who you are, but it should not shout “tourist” or give you away as a target.

When meeting new people, using public transportation or dining, watch what the natives do and then follow suit.  It is easier to take the time to observe than to look foolish.

3.    Travel during the day

It is always easier to find your way in the daylight when you can see your surroundings and ask for help from working individuals than at night.  If possible, book all transportation earlier than later and if walking to your hotel, leave before it gets dark so you can find your way.  Make notes of landmarks, businesses or signs on your route so you feel confident in your sense of direction.

When booking a hotel, find a hotel with good reviews in a safe and secure area.  When checking in, ask to have your room near an elevator so you do not have to walk down long, dim lit hallways.  Using the first initial of your name and writing your room number down instead of openly discussing your hotel arrangements with the clerk can prevent those around you from knowing personal information about you.

Be cautious of phone calls or unexpected knocking on your door you may mistake as room service. If in doubt of your safety for any reason, find a place where you do feel comfortable to stay. 

4.    Documents and Money management

Never carry large amounts of cash and never store it all in once place.  On the other hand, it is wise to carry a few different credit cards and ask for receipts to check expenses.  If for any reason you lost a credit card or cash you know you can report it immediately and still have access to necessary funding. 

Store important documents like your passport in a secure place close to your body such as a money belt. 

5.    Keep busy

Read a book, write a postcard or play a game on your phone so others do not see you as a potential conversation.  People are less likely to target you as a tourist if they see you are busy doing something that requires your full attention.  It also shows that you are at ease.  Gripping your backpack and sitting nervously with wide eyes spells trouble.

6.    Stay alert

While keeping busy is good, don’t forget to notice your surroundings.  Take note of the others around you and notice their body language, their proximity to you and their eye contact.  If you are worried about an uncomfortable situation, keep close to larger groups of people or try to find a seat next to a mother with small children or someone you feel is safe to buddy up with.  

7.    Don’t talk too much

While many are wondering what you are doing alone and excited to see a foreigner, it can be unsafe to share too much information.  Giving specific details about where you are staying, what your plans include or where you are going next may seem like innocent conversation, but you never know who is listening.  Instead, ask about the history of the area or interesting facts.  This kind of conversation is educational and also takes the attention off of you.

8.    Have confidence and common sense

The most important thing a woman should know about traveling alone is to exude confidence.  Walking tall with a sense of direction deters unwanted attention.  Looking around in confusion and unfolding your map in the middle of the street makes you vulnerable.  It is okay to ask for directions but try to do so in a shop or restaurant. Study your desired route before you leave your hotel or carry a small map that can easily be referred to discreetly.

Avoid dark streets, stranded areas, avoid late nights with strangers, dodgy hotel and transportation and make sure you know how to use a payphone.  While the odds of you being in danger may be slim, it is always better to be safe than sorry.

9.    Keep in touch

It is important to leave a general itinerary of your trip behind with family or friends.  Check in regularly so they know you are safe and where you are.  They will enjoy hearing of your experiences. Travel insurance and registering your trip with the Department of State online ensures that the embassy knows of your presence in a country and can be of assistance if necessary.

10.Have fun, learn to laugh

Remember the reason you are traveling in the first place. Don’t get caught up with what you may be missing at home or staying glued to your cell phone.  Look for the beauty around you and laugh at unplanned situations.  Remind yourself that you are a mature and able woman and you can handle anything.  Spend a little extra once in awhile and splurge on that delicacy or the silk scarf you adore.  Take photographs of everything so your inspiration can continue when you return home.  Take it all in – the sights, the smells, the foods and the language.  This trip is all about you.  Enjoy yourself!

A Life Cut Short

 A Life Cut Short

John Lawrence Bell

1906 – 1939

By: Hilary Owens

In 1939, the world was not sitting still. 

     Talks of war in Europe were spreading quickly across the globe.  John Lawrence Bell picked up a paper on his way to Dr. C. W. Clifford’s office in the First National Bank[1] and sighed at the looming idea of another war.  He rubbed his jaw trying to ease the persistent pain he’d felt since his last visit to the dentist.           

     During his recent consultation with Dr. Frank E. Brown[2], he’d been told the tooth extraction had caused a severe throat infection[3].  He’d been miserably coughing up mucus and blood for over two weeks.  He didn’t have the money for a dentist, but he agreed to do some free labor in exchange for a tooth extraction.  At least his workmanship showed quality.  His dentist wasn’t the one coughing up infection. 

     John had avoided dental work his whole life, since the day his older brother “helped” him pull a sore tooth.  Luckily for John, his parents could never afford to send him to a dentist, so he never had to endure another person sticking their fingers in his mouth.        He groaned at the thought of what today held in store for him.  He didn’t want to waste a whole day of work at the dentist when he could be working.  They needed the money bad.  Rent was due in only a few days.

     He was greeted at the door with a “hello” and was gestured to the empty yellow chair.  The office was plain but clean and the sounds of busy people on the floor above him could be heard with quick and heavy footsteps. 

     John was tense but tried to relax. He gripped the chair, closed his eyes and let the anesthetic take him. 

  

      

      Thoughts of dying in a dentist chair may seem over dramatic in response to a fearful dentist visit.  The truth is, people die every year due to dental malpractice.

     People have loathed the dentist as early as 7000 B.C.[4] where evidence of dentistry was found in Egypt.  And unfortunately many of these people have dental malpractice listed as their cause of death.

     Throughout history, dental treatments were as brutal as the toothache itself.   It was common practice to have dental work done by barbers or barber-surgeons, and the marketplace charlatan. By the 1700’s[5], the term ‘dentist’ was borrowed from the French, and became the new name for “tooth operators.”

     The main treatments available to the working class were dubious toothache remedies and extraction[6], given most commonly by the village blacksmith and barber.  Instead of leaving with a new toothbrush and sugar free gum, they usually left bloody and -  unknown to them - full of infection.  The wealthy sought after skilled dentists who could provide them with artificial teeth–made from walrus, elephant or hippopotamus ivory[7].  Uncomfortable and ill fitting, these were later replaced with porcelain dentures which had a tendency to crack.

     By the 19^th century, dentistry started to grow.  Toothpaste, which was originally made and sold by individual dentists in bottles, porcelain pots or paper boxes, was now being mass-produced in factories and sold nationwide.  The nylon toothbrush, the first made with synthetic bristles[8] came later in 1938.

     Possibly one of the most dramatic discoveries in dentistry occurred late in the 19^th century and early 20^th century with the introduction of anesthesia.  Cocaine and then Novocain[9] were used as local anesthetics.  Then, ether and chloroform and nitrous oxide[10] became the most preferred option for dental surgeries.  Ether Chlorid was not considered as a “safe” anesthetic because of its tendency to produce breath holding, and its disastrous effects upon the heart[11]  It was during these early years of anesthetics that the innovations of new dentistry became a gamble for many people’s lives. 

     John Lawrence Bell was one of those people. 

     Born in 1906[12] to William and Harriet Bell, John grew up helping his father blacksmith[13].  His father William A. Bell moved to Rexburg in 1883 from Utah as one of the “veritable pioneer class.[14]” And was “the blacksmith[15] in Rexburg for many, many years.”  He started his shop in 1889 and “did primarily all the blacksmithing” as well as writing and wagon work.  Although William refused to be involved with any political or religious sect or organization, he was generously involved in the community and had a “large circle of sterling friends.[16]” Being well acquainted with trade work from his own father, he passed his knowledge on to his own sons. It was not uncommon in those days

for sons to learn the trade of their father and continue the family business.  Unfortunately, in the 1930s the world knew one of history’s darkest times and a family business did not always guarantee work.

     The Great Depression was everywhere.  The economic collapse was unforgettable, causing unemployment to increase from less than 3 million in 1929 to 4 million in 1930, 8 million in 1931 and 12.5 million in 1932[17]. 

     It was in 1932 that a quarter of the nation’s families did not have an income.  Those that were fortunate enough to be employed suffered greatly with pay cuts and part-time schedules. Families struggled with no homes, no food and a lack of security.  As the United Sates economy plummeted, husbands deserted their wives and children, and for the first time in American history the birthrate was below the replacement level[18].

     President of the United States, Herbert Hoover, declared, “Nobody is actually starving.  The hoboes are better fed than they have ever been.” 

     Despite his statement, and with yearly incomes cut almost in half in only a few years, families lost homes, investments and neglected healthcare to save money.

     John waited for the dentist, relaxing with the help of the ether chlorid he had been given.  He thought of Carma.  Her beautiful smile was the first thing he saw this morning as he woke up.  He cherished those few quiet moments they had alone before the world came alive.  Her smile was fading slowly as the anesthetic took him deeper.  

     John Bell married his sweetheart Carma[19] Denise McKenna on Sept. 8, 1931[20] in Idaho Falls, Idaho and they welcomed a son, Steve J. Bell, on March 13, 1932[21] in Rexburg.

     In this same year, major political changes took place and the economic distress in the United States led to the election of the Democrat Franklin D. Roosevelt. Roosevelt led a number of changes in the economy.  He increased government regulation and massive public-works projects to promote a recovery[22].  Despite his efforts, the economic stagnation persisted and mass unemployment continued.

     People started gambling what little they had as they sought any means to add to their income.  The game Monopoly was introduced by the Warner Brothers in 1935 and 20 thousand sets were sold in one week[23].  Fashion, traveling, and luxury were left for the very rich.  Many states suffered worse than others.  One of them was Idaho.

      Idaho was hit hard with debt and needed government relief badly.  John and Carma, along with many others, packed their things and moved across the country in search of employment.  Their move took them to Salem, Oregon, around 1936, where an economic revival was showing[24], and John was successfully employed as a tile setter[25].

     Life wasn’t easy for John during these times of economic failure.  With 3 mouths to feed, the seriousness of the times weighed heavy on his shoulders.  This wasn’t the kind of life he imagined for his new family.

     Dr. Clifford entered the room and sat down.  The anesthetic had kicked in and John looked asleep.  It was time to get to work.  He turned on an extra lamp, giving the room a new glow and aimed it towards John. 

     As he propped open John’s mouth, he noticed a slight twitch.  Then almost all at once, John’s body was shaking out of control. 

     He called for help and tried to calm John’s writhing body. The Salem first aid car was called, and Dr. H. H. Barlow arrived at the scene and found John had no pulse. He tried to revive John’s heart[26]. 

     It was too late.  His eyes already closed, the doctors stepped away from John and sighed.

     John Lawrence Bell, 33 years old, of 930 Broadway died Aug. 4, 1939 in a dental chair at the office of Dr. C.W. Clifford in the First National bank where he had come for treatment of a throat infection resulting from a tooth extraction made by another dentist[27].

     His life cut short, he was survived by his widow Carma and a son, Steve, aged 7.

Bibliography

The Oregon Statesman, August 1939: 5

Namibian Dental Association, The History of Dentistry, www.namibiadent.com/History

Samuel Cartin, "Anesthesia and Analgesia, Scope and Utility of Vinethene Anesthesia in Dentistry and Oral Surgery.," November and December 1939, http://www.anesthesia-analgesia.org/content/18/1-6/324.full.pdf .

Find A Grave, www.findagrave.com.

Family History Library, "United States Census," Ancestry.com, Roll: 300 and Page 3B Image 1042.0 Film: 2340135, 1930, www.ancestry.com.

A.W. Bowen & Co., "Progressive men of Bannock, Bear Lake, Bingham, Fremonth and Oneida counies," 1904, www.books.google.com.

George Alton Anderson, interview by Harold Forbush, , Voices from the Past "Transportation of Good

to Market Lake", (March 12, 1983): Tape #69.

A.W. Bowen & Co., "Progressive men of Bannock, Bear Lake, Bingham, Fremonth and Oneida counties," 1904, www.books.google.com.

Digital History, explorations, children and the great depression, www.digitalhistory.uh.edu/learning_history.

Idaho Falls, Bonneville Co. marriage book, Vol. 4 (County Courthouse), 375.

Ancestry.com, A record of the ancestry and descendants of Henry & Sarah (Thompson) Hendricks of Monmouth Co., New Jersey: Henry Hendricks, www.ancestry.com.

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Modern American Poetry, www.english.illinois.edu.

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[1] The Oregon Statesman, August 1939: 5.

[2] The Oregon Statesman, August 1939: 5.

[3] The Oregon Statesman, August 1939: 5.

[4] Namibian Dental Association, The History of Dentistry, www.namibiadent.com/History.

[5] Namibian Dental Association, The History of Dentistry, www.namibiadent.com/History.

[6] Namibian Dental Association, The History of Dentistry, www.namibiadent.com/History.

[7] Namibian Dental Association, The History of Dentistry, www.namibiadent.com/History.

[8] Namibian Dental Association, The History of Dentistry, www.namibiadent.com/History.

[9] Namibian Dental Association, The History of Dentistry, www.namibiadent.com/History.

[10] Namibian Dental Association, The History of Dentistry, www.namibiadent.com/History.

[11] Samuel Cartin, "Anesthesia and Analgesia, Scope and Utility of Vinethene Anesthesia in Dentistry and Oral Surgery.," November and December 1939, http://www.anesthesia-analgesia.org/content/18/1-6/324.full.pdf .

[12] Find A Grave, www.findagrave.com.

[13] Family History Library, "United States Census," Ancestry.com, Roll: 300 and Page 3B Image 1042.0 Film: 2340135, 1930, www.ancestry.com.

[14] A.W. Bowen & Co., "Progressive men of Bannock, Bear Lake, Bingham, Fremonth and Oneida counies," 1904, www.books.google.com.

[15] George Alton Anderson, interview by Harold Forbush, , Voices from the Past "Transportation of Good to Market Lake", (March 12, 1983): Tape #69.

[16] A.W. Bowen & Co., "Progressive men of Bannock, Bear Lake, Bingham, Fremonth and Oneida counties," 1904, www.books.google.com.

[17] Digital History, explorations, children and the great depression, www.digitalhistory.uh.edu/learning_history.

[18] Digital History, explorations, children and the great depression, www.digitalhistory.uh.edu/learning_history.

[19] Find A Grave, www.findagrave.com.

[20] Idaho Falls, Bonneville Co. marriage book, Vol. 4 (County Courthouse), 375.

[21]Ancestry.com, A record of the ancestry and descendants of Henry & Sarah (Thompson) Hendricks of Monmouth Co., New Jersey: Henry Hendricks, www.ancestry.com.

[22]www.english.illinois.edu/maps/depression.

[23]Lonestar College - Kingwood, American Cultural History, 1930-1939, www.kclibrary.lonestar.edu/decade30.html.

[24]Modern American Poetry, www.english.illinois.edu.

[25]The Post-Register, "Services Held for Madison Man At Rexburg" (August 10, 1939), 2.

[26] The Oregon Statesman, August 1939: 5.

[27] The Oregon Statesman, August 1939: 5.

Acupuncture

Today I went to another specialist appointment for my "bulging disc" in my back.  As Dane and I were enjoying some delicious life savers I noticed he was reading about acupuncture and he pointed to it and smiled.  I shook my head and no thank you!

It turns out it was exactly what the specialist prescribed.  ACUPUNCTURE.  And puncture it did- my back wigged out the second she put those Chinese torturers in me.  I'm such a wimp.

So next week I am going back for more.
Have you had acupuncture??  Tell me your experience!

Today is more important than tomorrow

One of my classes this semester requires that we keep a daily blog about random things.  The purpose is to generate some creativity and get us writing more!

 So far, it has been really fun to write and see what other students in my class are writing on the same prompt. I thought I would occasionally post some of my answers.  Please leave comments or answer it yourself!

Today's prompt:  The poet Mary Oliver concludes her poem "The Summer Day" by asking,  "Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?"  

My answer: 

As Mary Oliver puts it, "Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" 

I plan on living in the now. Not putting things off until tomorrow.

The last 5 years of my life have been filled with dreams, opportunities, setbacks and new, challenging adventures.  Isn't that what we should call life experiences we may not have expected or asked for?

I have thought a lot about the things I would love to do if I wasn't restricted by time, money, skills, and even talent.  The sad thing is that I was thinking about all the reasons I couldn't do these things - due to all the needless restrictions.

It is easy to say I can’t and walk away, but a more worthwhile question I have started asking myself is how?

Because of my change in attitude, I have accomplished far more than I thought possible in a short period of time.  I continue to push myself, sometimes sacrificing, so I can make my life as “wild and precious” as possible.

Trying new things, learning a new language, and spending more time living for love has opened my eyes to a world of possibilities.

Our life, our world, our future – it is what we make of it today. Not tomorrow.